Are You Happy Now?

Their is nothing wrong with standing out and being different from others. Remember, though it may not seem like it their is someone that loves you, someone that cares. Don't let the bullies tear you down, don't let them break you and make you think your something that your not. If you are a bully I hope your happy that you made that person feel insecure, or you made that person cry I hope your happy that you made them hide behind a personality that doesn't represent them. If you are getting bullied remember that you don't know the story behind the bullies, though it doesn't make it right, you don't know what they are going through. The best revenge you can do to the bullies is proving them wrong and showing them the real you, and being okay with it.

Take That Brave Step

"Do one thing everyday that scares you."- Eleanor Roosevelt

The quote above is a quote that we should live by daily. When we get bullied were afraid to do stuff we love because we're afraid of getting judged by other people. We don't want them to see it as a flaw if we fail. But we shouldn't worry about what they think! Don't be someone that looks back on their life and say well I should've done this or I wish I would've done this. If you do something that you dream of and at first you fail just remember you had te courage to actually try. You took that brave step into trying while the others just sat there and watched. If we do something that we fear we are becoming braver and its building us into the unique person that we are.

The Power Of Walking Away

We've all heard the saying "Just Turn The Other Cheek" but how many times do we have to get slapped before it actually starts to pay off? Is it when we get verbally slapped it's building us up to be stronger even though it feels like it's tearing us down. When I got bullied my first instinct was to fight back, an later run to the girls bathroom and pray nobody followed me and saw my tears. But looking back I don't understand why I actually wasted my tears on them, their opinions didn't define who I was, yes they hurt, but I know who I'am and just because somebody doesn't like it shouldn't matter. The ability of walking away is knowing that you are who you because that's who we were made to be and that's what makes us happy. The only time we should change ourself is when we want to change for the better not to change because someone didn't like us being different. Even if you think what the bullies are saying is true having the ability to walk away gives you more power. It proves to them that you are stronger than what they think, and what you have to remember is just because they don't like you doesn't mean you should change to please them. Though it may be hard to walk away remember that being yourself is fine! Nobody is made to be the same because even if we were people would still find ways to bring you down. You are never going to be able to please everybody, but if you please yourself that's all that should matter.